Wednesday, August 31, 2011

To you, My dearest Son........With love -from Mumma

Ur eyes used to shine and dance to rhymes
Today ur body moves and groves, U mime
U used to hold my finger tight and walk
Today u run, u jump, u dance, u talk

I was moved to tears when you called me "Mumma"
N u put ur dad on cloud 9 as u called him "Paa"
Ur ways made grandparents rekindle their parenthood
We became kids and they recollected our childhood

Ur Apatos Hotetop and Amanoos
Made us forget Octopus, Helicopter and Animals
Ur "Hi,Gu Monnin" brightens up each morning
Ur 'how do u do,hug, I la you'erases all our whining

Which is that lingo you speak in ?
Only I can understand, yes am listening
You played with my neck chain,spoon,lids and jars !
Today you ride bike, you love cars

From gaga goo goos to "come on man"
From bath tub fun to swim pool and tan !
From me feeding you to your own spoon !
From my bedtime stories to your favorite toons !

Now you know ur ABCs and you count 1 to 20s
Such a beautiful past year, Such beautiful memories,
Cheers to your life and our parenthood too !
Today my Son, you are turning TWO !

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Does Education dislocate Human Resource?

I believe fundamentally that we make very poor use of our talents. Many people go through their whole lives having no real sense of what their talents may be or if they had any to speak of. I met all kinds of people who don’t think they are really good at anything, or who don’t enjoy what they do. They simply go through their lives getting on with it. They don’t get any pleasure from what they do. They “endure” it rather than enjoy it and wait for the weekend. But I also met people who love what they do and who can’t imagine doing anything else. This is who they are. Education dislocates human resources. Human Resource cannot be found on surfaces, you need to go in search of them, they are buried deep.

Education system is being reformed every moment, but reforming is improving already broken model. (re-form as the word says). Bringing revolution through innovation is what we need and it is hard. Challenging what we take for granted, things that we think are obvious. The main hindrance in bringing about this revolution is the tyranny of common sense as people think there can’t be any other way ‘cos that’s the way its done. Quote by Abraham Lincoln second annual meeting of congress on Dec 1862. I ought to accept that I have no idea what was happening at that timeJ, here goes the quote: “The dogmas of the quiet past are inadequate to the stormy present. The occasion is piled high with difficulty, and we must rise with the occasion”. I love that. I love the term not “rise to it “but “rise with it”. “as our case is new, so we must “think anew and act anew”, we must disenthrall ourselves and then we shall save our country” I loved the word disenthrall here which means that there are ideas that all of us are enthralled to , which we simply take for granted as the natural order of things , the way the things are. And many of our ideas are used not to cope with the coming century but to cope with the circumstances of previous centuries, but our minds are still hypnotized by them. You know today’s kid doesn’t wear wristwatches not because he choose not to but they don’t have to as for them time is everywhere in this digitized world whereas we had to wear something that told us the time. Its a single function device, right? In today’s multi-tasking life who needs it?

Education today follows “Theory of Linearity” that you start from here and follow this track and if everything works fine you will reach here and set the rest of your life. Life is not linear, so why should our education be one? Humans depend upon not a singular concept of ability but a diversity of talent. A simple example: There is competition for the admission in right kindergarten with kids going for interviews at a mere age of 3! with their resumes and a set of unimpressed panel (teachers) saying “this is it ? ! you’ve been around for 36 months!” Its outrageous but it attracts people, how ironic! The moment you tell you had to undergo interview for your little one for admission, you are highlighted in your group and people start “talking” about it. So, this is just about the competition a child faces once he steps into this world and then later he is molded into what parents and others think “The perfect way to lead a life”. But I think we should not forget that after all it’s about passion; often people are good at things, they don’t really care for. What excites our passion, our spirit our energy and if you were doing the thing that you love to do, that you’re good at, time takes a different course entirely. If you like what u do, 5 hours feel like a minute and vice versa. And this is why so many people opt out of education as it doesn’t feed their spirit, energy or passion. You cannot predict the outcome of human development. But then developmental ways (Education) shouldn’t be predictive either.

Its about Customizing to your circumstances and personalizing to the people whom you are actually teaching. So, when you think your daughter should have studied medicine while she opts for Mass Media and Communication, let her explore, that’s where she belongs, don’t hold her back. And if you do, do not forget “Every year our children lay their dreams beneath our feet, so we should tread softly!

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

The Virtual Persona

I recently watched a website where they discussed and talked about seeing things in a different light and in a different dimension , and as they challenged, it really opened up my eyes to a whole new world of endless possibilities and viewing things in a different angle. This blog is inspired by one such talk!

Have we ever given a thought of what are we doing when we post our pics to FB or upload a video onto a social networking site say like You Tube? We are creating an online open personal Diary for the whole world to view and peep into ! And if you think , you have put in those privacy settings and locked your profile, let me make you rethink and understand that anything put up on net is never Private ! Someone's watching you all the time.

So what would happen to all those things that we have left behind on the NET, when we leave this world ! Active website turns into Archives. Billions of people on this planet actively use social networking sites. Some profound implications are really worth exploring here.  All of us are creating an archive which is something very different and unique than anything that’s done by our past generations. Considering few stats given below (which I searched on the net)

Youtube : 48 hours of Video uploaded per minute
Twitter : 200 million tweets posted every day
FB : Avg user posts 90 pieces of content per month

Parents grandparents might have as well used the technology for preserving photos, videos or simpler still a diary lying somewhere in the box in one corner. But we have created such an archive using digital technology in this invisible cloud that is definitely going to stay years after we’re gone ! What happens to that personality after you've died? Could it ... live on?

Now you wont believe what I am going to unveil here. There is actually a site called Ifidie.net, a Facebook Application, where in you can leave statuses, videos and messages that will get flashed in your profile after you die ! Creepy as it may sound, that is digital technology for you today !  “Death can catch you anywhere, anytime, Leave your If I die message before its too late” is their Tag line.. how far have we gone to make this big ?

And this is not all, Technology’s ability to understand our statuses and posts and predict about what we might do next is what the scientists are cracking into further. Just observe how Google has narrowed down your search and also predicts and shows you exactly what you want to see while you are searching. You create your profile on Twitter, Facebook, Linkedin, Youtube, Orkut.. that is what you are leaving behind for others to see when you die. They are all the Archives, on which your people will survive further without you !

Your Virtual Persona is much bigger than your actual one, don’t you think? And we are actually living two personalities in our life, an actual one and a virtual one. At times one gets so obsessed by this virtual persona and the virtual life that it starts bothering you , if there have been no comments on your FB post, or no one posted a thumbs up on your picture. And then you realize something more important, and probably, even more sad: that all that time you were obsessed over it, you could have been doing things with your family, or reading, gardening  or drawing, or painting, or ANYTHING.

Well now that’s life for you these days ! You prefer online chatting or scrapping and messaging over direct phone calls , you prefer to upload pics for the whole world to see rather than cherishing it with only a chosen few, you post something that will please others first, next you J . But then you are leaving behind an amazing archive of yourself and your life for your loved ones to cherish forever. Virtual Persona will still continue to live on even after you are gone now that’s something to ponder upon !